When parents divorce, creating a parenting plan that puts the child’s needs first is a priority. But when one parent is an active-duty service member, Florida parenting plans need to include special considerations for deployments, relocations, and military obligations.
If you’re navigating a military divorce in Florida, here’s what you should know about building a flexible, fair, and enforceable parenting plan.
How Florida Courts View Custody in Military Families
Florida courts focus on the best interests of the child when determining custody arrangements. Military status alone does not hurt a parent’s chances of shared custody. However, the realities of deployments, frequent moves, and unpredictable schedules must be addressed.
Related: Military Divorce in Florida Overview
Key Elements of a Parenting Plan for Active-Duty Parents
1. Deployment Clauses
Your plan should include clear instructions about what happens when the active-duty parent is deployed:
- Temporary transfer of time-sharing rights to a trusted family member (delegated visitation)
- Virtual communication arrangements (e.g., Zoom calls, video chats)
- Timeline for resuming the original plan post-deployment
2. Flexible Visitation Schedules
Because military orders can change rapidly, it’s smart to build flexibility into the schedule:
- Allow makeup parenting time after deployments
- Include “leave visitation” — special time during periods of military leave
Related: How Military Deployment Affects Divorce Proceedings in Florida
3. Relocation Provisions
Military parents may be required to move long distances. Florida law requires notice and sometimes court approval for relocations over 50 miles.
Your parenting plan should outline:
- Advance notice requirements for moves
- Transportation responsibilities for visitation
- Adjusted schedules if relocation occurs
Related: Florida Residency and Military Divorce: Why It Matters
Delegated Visitation Rights Explained
During deployment, Florida law allows a deployed parent’s time-sharing rights to be “delegated” to a:
- Grandparent
- Stepparent
- Another close family member
This ensures the child maintains a strong connection to the service member’s family while they are away.
However, the court must approve the delegation, and it must be in the child’s best interests.
Related: Tips for Active-Duty Service Members Filing for Divorce in Florida
Important Tips for Active-Duty Parents
- Communicate Early: Let your co-parent know about deployments and PCS moves as early as possible.
- Document Agreements: All arrangements should be in writing to avoid misunderstandings later.
- Focus on Stability: Courts prioritize stability and continuity for children, especially during major transitions.
- Work with an Attorney: Special military rules (like the SCRA) can affect custody proceedings, so it’s critical to get qualified legal advice.
Final Thoughts
Military life is full of sacrifices, but your relationship with your child shouldn’t be one of them. A well-crafted parenting plan can protect your bond, even through deployments, relocations, and changes in duty stations.
At Melendez Law Office, we help military families create parenting plans that work — for today and for the future.
Need help building a strong parenting plan? Contact us.
